One of the oldest women in the world with Down Syndrome celebrates life to the full on WDSD
A Devon woman with Down Syndrome is the embodiment of the theme for World Down Syndrome Day today – “End The Stereotypes” – as she lives life to the full in her 78th year.
When Elizabeth was born in 1946, people with Down Syndrome were only expected to live to their mid to late twenties so she is very proud that she has defied the odds. According to the Down’s Syndrome Association, people with Down Syndrome today are estimated to live until they are 50 and 60, with only a small number of people living into their 70s.
Elizabeth has described how she loves to go out shopping and spending time in her garden despite often being non-verbal and a wheelchair user.
“When Elizabeth first joined us five years ago, we were worried that we would not be able to communicate with her or anticipate her needs,” explains Kay Nicholls, the manager of Oak Tree House in Tiverton, where Elizabeth is supported by learning disability charity, Hft.
“Although she was non-verbal, she made sure we had nothing to worry about as she soon began to communicate with staff, either noting what she wanted as a snack (usually jelly babies!) or joining in with banter and keeping staff on their toes.
“It was lovely to hear Elizabeth start to talk, particularly as it was so unexpected,” says Kay.
Elizabeth has five siblings ranging in age between 69 and 83. She left home when she was younger to live in care. This was quite some distance from the family and it would mean a four-mile walk and many trains for Elizabeth’s parents to get there. Visits took the entire day and her brother Brian remembers his parents leaving very early and returning late into the night.
“This meant that visits could only take place a couple times a year,” Brian remembers.
Elizabeth moved into the Hft service from a shared lives service after her support needs changed following a stroke and her diagnosis of kidney disease.
Despite her disabilities, Elizabeth loves spending time going out and about with Brian and his wife, Eve. She likes looking at photographs of her favourite people and spending time in the garden where she lives. She also loves flowers and Brian and Eve ensure she has a bouquet delivered by a local florist every month.
Prior to a decline in her health, Elizabeth loved to travel. She has been on a cruise and has travelled to Madeira and Turkey but now she spends her time with her friends at the service, going to church and participating in celebrations in the local community.
“She continues to surpass all expectations in spite of her health, enjoying life and the company of others around her. She is an absolute joy to support,” says Kay.
Her support worker, Peter Harding, says that even though Elizabeth is often unable to talk, she is very expressive and has a great sense of humour, while one of her friends, Annie, describes her as beautiful.
Elizabeth is now looking forward to her 78th birthday in November and is making plans for a party to celebrate.